In previous posts we defined the date, balanced the budget, bagged the babysitter and customized the categories. Today we will see essential elements to any date. All dates are not the same but all good dates will include certain elements!
1. Romance
Ahhhh, candle light… freshly cut roses… and Lionel Richie playing in the background. OK, maybe Lionel Richie is not your thing, but nonetheless, romance is an essential element in Dating. From our earliest days we are conditioned to desire romantic love, just re-watch any Disney movie and you’ll see. Yet it’s not just the ladies. I cannot tell you how many times I have had men complain to me during marriage counseling that their was “cold” romantically. Go to a nice restaurant and spend time looking into each other’s eyes. Complement your love on their clothing, smile or general appearance. You may think that this is a bit silly and unnecessary but I challenge you to read the Song of Solomon in the Bible and see how many specific compliments were given from man to wife and from wife to man. romance, setting the mood is important.